Most couples don't argue about money. They avoid it.
The fights you do have? They're not about money. They're about who controls it, who's keeping score, and what you're each too afraid to say directly.
The Tend Money Workshop isn't a financial literacy class. You already know how money works. This is about building a shared system — and having the three conversations you keep not having.
Four hours. Eight couples max. You leave with a working system — not homework.
Workshop Agenda
What the morning looks like
The Alignment Audit
Every couple starts with a different money story — earner vs. saver, spender vs. avoider, controller vs. hider. This session names your actual dynamic, not the one you'd prefer.
The 3 Conversations You Keep Not Having
Income gaps. Debt secrets. Different timelines. We put them on the table — and give you a framework for having them without the argument.
Building Your Shared System
You leave with a working Tend Money account — both partners set up, all accounts connected, and a shared view that keeps working after you drive home.
The 12-Week Check-In Plan
Financial alignment isn't a one-day event. We build the lightweight rhythm that keeps you aligned without monthly "money date" dread.
Who this is for
Built for couples who are stuck.
Dates coming soon
Get notified when registration opens. Workshop limited to 8 couples — waitlist gets first access.
No spam. One email when dates are announced.
Questions
Do both partners have to come?+
Yes. The whole point is getting on the same page together. One person attending alone just moves the disconnection somewhere else.
Is this a class or a workshop?+
It's a workshop. You leave with your Tend Money account set up and your shared system designed — not notes on things to do later.
Do we need to use Tend Money after?+
It helps, but it's not required. The frameworks and conversations work regardless. The $7/month subscription is optional — and you can start a free trial at the workshop.
Is this financial advising?+
No. We don't give investment advice or tax guidance. We help couples get clear on what they have and what they want — and build a system for talking about it.
Also from Tend
Getting married soon?
Before the Wedding is the companion workbook — five conversations for engaged couples who want to walk into marriage eyes open.